What to Know Before Planning Your Engagement Party

What to Know Before Planning Your Engagement Party

First and foremost congratulations!  This is an exciting time for you and your significant other.  Now that the proposal is out of the way it is time to start thinking of another important task, planning an engagement party!  While you do not want to take away anything from the big wedding day, this is a great opportunity to practice some event planning skills.  Very similar to the wedding, you are going to want to find a venue, choose a date,create a guest list, send out invitations, decide on a menu, and stick to a budget. 



When it comes to traditions the bride’s parents usually host the engagement party.  However, in today’s world it is entirely appropriate for anyone close to the happy couple to take the role.  In the end there really is no right or wrong answer when it comes to planning an engagement party.  It is also not unusual to have more than one engagement party.  For example, if your parents wanted to just have one for family only, but your friends also want to celebrate you.  Two parties make sense if you live in a different state or city from your family.  

Set a Date

Whether you or someone else is hosting the event you are probably wondering when to have your engagement party.  Just like the hosting situation there is no right or wrong answer.  Obviously if you do not plan to host, being aware of your host’s schedule is important.  Availability expands beyond your host, you should be considering your guests as well.  That way everyone can make the appropriate accommodations and celebrate the next chapter of your life! 

Depending on the length of the engagement you may throw a party a few weeks after the big question was asked or a couple months into the wedding planning process.  While, it can be an exciting time you should take in the moment and your newly engaged status.  Waiting provides you the clarity to really picture the size of your guest list, style and location of your wedding.  Which will ultimately lead you to decide on the type of event you want to throw for the engagement party.  

Determine Your Budget


If you are the one hosting, be cautious not to blow your entire wedding budget on this one event leading up to your big day.  However, if someone else is hosting this obviously allows more flexibility.  Having someone who you trust to host is a good starting point as it will be easier to communicate with them on themes and the budget.  No matter if you are having a low key event or not keeping a budget is still a good idea to use as a benchmark.  Also, the more specific your budget is the more detail can go into your guest list, venue, and decor.  

Selecting The Right Place 

Of course when planning an engagement party one of the most important steps is finding the perfect spot to have it.  A home or restaurant are classic choices, but that does not mean that you have yours there.  Any spot from an art gallery to even a beach is fair game.  Just like your wedding venue, the place that you select should speak to the formality of the party you want to throw.  So, if you are thinking casually for your event a backyard might be perfect for you and your guests.  

Obviously, if you are having a hard time getting things lined up for your engagement party there are always professionals to help with your event.  Art of The Event will work alongside you to ensure that all planning, decorating, and hosting is taken care of for you, so you can enjoy your special event.  


If you are pondering who to invite to your event, just know there are no rules or guidelines for this.  The only tip to keep in mind is that any guest that is invited to your engagement party should be invited to the wedding also.  This is important because it will have an effect later on when it is time to add up wedding guests.  So really think about the size of the wedding you are planning on having.  If you are not sure about who you want at your wedding that is ok, keep it to just close family and friends so no feelings are hurt.  

Once you have a nice list of people that you want to share your special event with then it is time to send out the invitations.  It is important to note that when planning and sending out your invitations you want to give your guests lead time to ensure they can make arrangements to be there.  


Another aspect of your engagement party is the food.  No, you do not have to provide each person with a 5 course meal for the night, but there should definitely be something for everyone to sip and munch on.  Anything from appetizers to a full on buffet will work.  If you are not planning to serve a full meal, pick a time in between typical meals and make it clear on the invitation so everyone is informed.  


There is no need to give yourself a headache pondering what you want to do for your decor.  It does not have to match your wedding perfectly or at all.  However, based on your budget feel free to look into a professional event planner to work with you.  Art of The Event will assist with staying within your budget and creating and designing the perfect engagement event for you.  Their services range from design sets to full blow custom pieces.  On top of that, having a relationship with a planner will benefit you when you are ready to plan the wedding as they already know your taste!  

Plan Your Next Event With Art of The Event

If you are getting ready to plan your engagement party, first off congratulations!  This is an exciting time in your life and it should be celebrated accordingly.  Having an event planner can really help take the stress off your hands.  Our team will work with you to ensure that you have an amazing engagement party to kick off the new chapter of your life.  Get in contact with our team by calling us at 781-670-9292 or by filling out a contact form on our website.  We look forward to celebrating with you!

Tips for Throwing Your Next Holiday Party

Got stuck with throwing the next company party? Maybe you and your friends wanted to get together to celebrate Halloween? Well, the holiday season is upon us and leaving an impression with each guest that attended your party is important. Here are some tips to ensure that you and everyone else has a good time.

Holiday Party Menu

Everyone will be pleased to see a varied food menu when they show up. That way you can appeal to everyone, even those with diverse food palates. Your menu should be diverse with some healthy options and indulgent options, whether that is meaty recipes or vegetarian options. A good note to remember is that bite sized foods are always less awkward for everyone.

Picking a Color Scheme

There are many options that you can go with when planning a party. Without a color scheme you may find yourself overwhelmed by your choices. Having two main colors that contrast, will allow you to focus your accessories around them.

Menu Cards

No one likes to eat unidentified foods. Making menu cards for each dish so guests do not have to guess what they are eating. This is a great way to call out common allergic foods so you do not run into any issues. Also, saves you from answering the repetitive questions of “what is this?”.

Set The Mood

Setting the mood is essential for capturing the spirit of the holiday at your party. The “mood” includes atmospheric details like decorations and lighting. The right lighting is essential. Too bright and your guests will be left feeling like they are attending a high school dance, too dark and they won’t be able to see what they are eating. Candles can be a nice touch to add as they are inexpensive.


The right music is essential for a party and the atmosphere. Creating a playlist of your favorite holiday songs. Better yet if it is in your budget a DJ can keep your guests engaged throughout the duration of your party.

Contact a Professional Party Event Planner

No matter if you are looking to get your work together for the annual Christmas party or you are just catching up with some old friends, Art of the Event can help! Our team has years of experience planning holiday parties. Start planning your party now by calling us at 781-670-9292 or by filling out a contact form on our website.

So, You’re Having a Holiday Party!

By Gayle Gilberto, Event Designer & CIS

American Tower Fairmont Copley Plaza

Thanksgiving comes late this year, which means most holiday parties are being planned within the first two weeks in December. That’s not very far from now but it’s still not too late to plan your gathering or to add some extra spice to the existing one! If you haven’t booked your venue or suppliers yet, Kristin O’Conner, Director of Sales and Marketing of Capers Catering advises the following: “Be willing to be flexible! Thursdays in December are the quickest dates to go. If you’re willing to do a different day we can play around and make it work for you. But, we almost always can make it work for our clients.”

Get People Excited About Your Holiday Party

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You may also consider moving your party into the New Year. January and February dates a offer better venue and supplier availability and your guests can relax and enjoy your celebration without their personal Holiday plans getting in the way.

Build up excitement for your upcoming celebration by advertising through your company social media. Hint at the activities to come. If you haven’t told your guests already, consider “teasing” the theme to build anticipation. For example, if you are having a carnival theme, pass out popcorn or cotton candy during lunchtime or after a company meeting. Or invite a salsa dancer into your office to perform in advance of your “Havana Nights” theme event.

Another great way to build excitement for your Holiday party is to add an awards component to the affair. Create a few fun categories for your employees to vote on to get them involved and pumped up. Or look for in-house talent and have them participate in some way. I had a CEO who leads a company sing-a-long for his employees at the end of a Holiday celebration. This quickly became the beloved company tradition guests look forward to every year!

Brainstorm Ideas With Others

creative cocktailgingerbread cookieKick up your food and beverage choices by chatting with employees and don’t be shy about brainstorming fresh ideas with your catering manager

Kristin O’Connor offers this advice: “We’ve had clients collect a few family recipes that we can incorporate into a menu. This spices up an event and makes employees experience all the feels when their own holiday traditions can be represented to their colleagues. Also, say yes to all the desserts- don’t make it an afterthought. Whether it is a fun unique station, like make your own s’mores, smashed cake bar, boozy hot chocolate station, or passed cookies and milkshakes, people love to put their healthy lifestyles on hold this time of year.

Plan Fun Activities For All

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More active crowds love games of all types and there are plenty of options available! From casino games to arcade and video games, space, taste, and budget are your only limitations.

AC Anders, VP of Corporate Events at Fun Enterprises recommends activities that can double as company giveaways:

“All too often we are at an event and take photos that live in our phone or on our social apps. Switch things up and get a photo program that the guest leaves with the photo in a snow globe or snowflake. Also, personalization and DYO programs give your attendees something fun to do and take home.”


The Gift That Keeps on Giving

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”Gifting this year? Check out the many companies offering to buy one give one options now (Bomba socks, One World Play and Smile Squared are just a few) guests can feel great knowing their gift was also donated to someone in need. Or you can empower your employees to be even more actively involved in the spirit of the season.

AC Anders: “Some companies decide that since it is the time of year for giving back it is a perfect time to sponsor a community project. Here are a few suggestions:

  • Caroling at a senior center or hospital
  • Volunteering at a food bank
  • Collecting coats for the Winter Season ahead
  • Donating Toys for a good cause”

Finally, don’t forget to make your event sparkle— try dazzling guests with a great theme. Glitz is always popular this time of year and themes that blend well with interactive activities are particularly hot right now. Brainstorm with an event design professional to find the theme that best suits your company’s demographic and image. This is your party and you can customize it in myriad ways that will make all your attendees feel like the VIPs they are!!!

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Getting the Most from your Supplier Relationships: Some Do’s and Don’ts

By Gayle Gilberto, Event Designer & CIS

After working as a supplier in this industry for 16 years and in another for five more, I’ve had every kind of working relationship with meeting and event planners. I’ve also had the privilege of supervising others in their working relationships. From my experience, I’ve gained insight into how different clients’ techniques, systems, and working styles affect their programs from the bidding process to the final on-site results. I’ve compiled a list of some ‘dos’ and ‘don’ts’ that will help you get what you need and perhaps something extra from your suppliers.

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Do: Take three bids, and tell your suppliers you are taking bids. The competition will drive your suppliers to sharpen those pencils and create quality proposals.

Do: Compare apples to apples! When sending out RFP’s, make sure each supplier is working with the same information. Be as transparent as possible, and let the suppliers know which elements are most important and which ones are not.

Don’t: Hedge on the budget question. I understand that there are times when you legitimately don’t know what your budget is; however, I recommend using past experience or event as your guide. Also, make sure to give each supplier the same budget range to avoid getting wildly different proposals back at various price points. Even if you have to modify the budget after receiving the bid, you’ll start with information you can use to access your three bids properly.

*Helpful Hint*: If you do know your budget, shave a bit off the top when sharing with suppliers. That leftover “padding” can be used in the future to add elements you don’t see in the initial proposal!

Do: Ask for other suggestions. You don’t have to be an expert on everything yourself. You are reaching out to experts in each of their fields. Let them share their knowledge with you by encouraging them to add suggestions and different options. You might end up liking the new ideas better than the ones you initially thought of!

Do: Be realistic with your proposal, timeframe. Try to get RFP’s in as early as possible and ask the supplier how much time they need for the turnaround. There is an old rule from my days in the film industry that equally applies to event production: “Good, Fast, Cheap!” Pick two!”

After the Bid: The Working Relationship

There are two ways to get what you need when you need it:

  1. Be an ally

We all enjoy doing beautiful things for our friends. That’s why clients and suppliers who are “friends,” even if only in the working world, tend to get better service and extra bonuses. Being thankful, considerate, and fostering a positive relationship with someone can go a long way.

  1. Be a ‘Squeaky Wheel’

We are all constantly busy in our industry. And although your suppliers genuinely want to give equal time to all their clients, the reality is that some clients make sure they get more attention than others. The ‘squeaky wheel’ is someone who is both present and persistent in getting what he or she needs. Clients who call consistently tend to get pushed to the head of the line.

Don’t: Be mean

Try not to confuse being ‘squeaky’ with being rude. Beating people down is not the same as being present. I’ve seen senior suppliers jump away from the phone in fear when they see a certain number come up on their cell. I’ve seen others pass on potentially lucrative projects just because their point person proved to be complicated. Suppliers can make or break your next program; keep them on your team by treating them like professionals, not servants.

Do: Feel free to ask for that extra something. Even if you’re pretty sure the answer is “no,” it never hurts to try. You’ll be surprised at how often you’re happily surprised by the outcome.

Event or Program Start Day

Do: Arrive early to make sure things are progressing smoothly. Get ahead of last-minute changes and potential snags during your set up.

Do: Act before you react. As we all know, unexpected contingencies arise on site. Elevators and trucks can break down, backups happen on loading docks, and people get sick. If your set up isn’t going as expected, find out what the challenges are, and ask for solutions.

Do: Request a walkthrough before anyone is dismissed.

Do: Request a rehearsal, run-through if AV, talent is involved.

After the Fact

Give feedback! Everyone wants to know how they are doing, and feedback is always appreciated. Suppliers should welcome constructive criticism so we can adjust and improve in the future. Leaving a review, especially when someone hits a home run, can forge a friendly feeling that will surely benefit you the next time around!

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